Older and Wiser

Life is designed in such a way that the older we get, the wiser we become. Our experiences teach us more than any teacher ever could. And so, hopefully, as believers, we are learning not to be so hasty; when to speak and when to keep quiet; we are growing less angry and more forgiving. And the list could go on and on.

This not only should inform our daily living in a good way by changing our choices and decisions and even our thought processes but it also gives us insight for those that come behind us.

As I was reading in II Chronicles 10 last week, I came across this interesting passage. It’s regarding Rehoboam, who asked two groups of men—old men and young men— how he should respond to a question the people have asked him—

𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘙𝘦𝘩𝘰𝘣𝘰𝘢𝘮 𝘵𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘭 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘚𝘰𝘭𝘰𝘮𝘰𝘯 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘦 𝘩𝘦 𝘺𝘦𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘥, 𝘴𝘢𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘭 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘺𝘦 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘳𝘦𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦? 𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘩𝘪𝘮, 𝘴𝘢𝘺𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶 𝘣𝘦 𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘴𝘦𝘳𝘷𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳. 𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘭 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘨𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘮, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘭 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘱 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘩𝘪𝘮, 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘮. (II Chronicles 10:6-8)

Instead of heeding the wiser, older men, he decided to go with what the young men had said (which was to be harsh with the people).

In this case, the older men had a much wiser answer for Rehoboam and had he followed it, his kingdom would have had a very different ending. Following the wrong advice can change everything, just as it did for Rehoboam.

Of course, older men do not always give the best advice—especially in a culture where so many older men and women spend the last twenty years of their lives playing and selfishly pursuing their own desires.

But there is still a principle to be found in this story from the Bible. We spend almost the entirety of our lives younger than some and older than some, so what are principles we need to consider from this story as a younger person and as an older person?

We live in a culture that is a bit upside down. In the past, the wisdom of old age was valued and elderly men and women were respected. In the world we find ourselves in, it is youth that people listen to and it is the young people that are respected.

It wasn’t until the mid-1900s that youth culture took on a life all its own and became a force to be reckoned with. There were no “youth groups” in the 1800s. No Botox or plastic surgery so we could look “younger”.

While growing older always has had its challenges, there was no shame in it back in the day. It was just a part of life. No one was trying to be younger. They just were taking life as it came.

But we live in this culture where youth is admired and old age is despised. How do we live in this culture but not be “of it”? Since we are all both “younger” and “older” for most of our lives we need to ask—according to scripture—what are things we need to consider as a younger person and what do we need to think about as an older person?

First, it’s important that we consider what those older than us have to say. Particularly, those who are walking with God.

There are lots of foolish old men and women in this materialistic, self-centered culture. But there are also many wise men and women who love the Lord and have so much to offer those of us who are younger than they are. May we be humble enough to listen to what they have to say and take time to reflect on it.

Some of my dearest friends have been women considerably older than me. One was thirty years older and one was twenty-two years older than me. Both were incredible blessings in that they had so much wisdom to offer me, because they loved the Lord and had lived longer than me. If we still have our parents and they love the Lord, we will find that they are also a wonderful resource for godly counsel.

Older people just think about things we never even considered. They understand dynamics we can have no clue about. They have been through what we are going through and can look back and see what they did right and what they did wrong. Hind sight is 20/20 and they have the blessing of having the hind sight we can’t possibly have.

And so may we be humble and teachable and willing to learn from those who are a bit ahead of us on this path called life.

Second, may we be worthy counselors.

We are all older than someone. May we be studying the Word and growing more like Christ through our life experiences, so that we may be a counselor of value as we get older.

As I mentioned above, many older men and women live selfishly. But as believers, we not only must turn away from that, we must realize the absolute privilege it is to build into the lives that are around us. Many of us have children (and their spouses), grandchildren, and even great-grandchildren whom we can support and encourage. We have nieces and nephews, Sunday School children, young parents, co-workers, and our church families. There is always someone younger than us that can use some support and encouragement to honor and obey the Lord.

But before we offer any counsel…

It is critical that we are an excellent listener. Spewing unwanted and condescending advice will be never be a blessing to anyone.

Compassionate listening with a well-spoken word of advice as God gives opportunity is what we are after.


We can’t change the world, but we can change our own hearts and attitudes, can’t we? May we be willing to listen and consider the counsel of those who are ahead of us and may we be willing encourage and build up in the Word those who are behind us.

And, in doing these things, we will be obeying scripture and be living out the pattern that God established for His people.

Judgements, the Bible, and Incomplete Information

We all make judgments. We make judgments about what is beautiful and what isn’t. And about what is “normal” and what “isn’t normal”. We make judgments about whether someone is doing something right or something wrong; And about whether someone is doing something wise or something foolish. We all do it. And we all do this quite naturally, whether we speak our judgments aloud or not.

But there are two things that we believers really should consider before we pass judgment. Before I go on I’d like to mention that this is something God has been teaching me, oh so gradually, over the course of my lifetime and I am definitely not the same person I used to be. But I am still growing in this area. It’s so easy to write about something the Bible teaches, but learning to live it out takes a lifetime.

The FIRST thing for our consideration is this: Is my judgment based on God’s Holy Word or is it based on my opinion?

If it’s based on my opinion then does it really matter? What makes one opinion better than another?

Here’s a silly example (albeit a practical one). Let’s consider a woman’s shirt. Let’s say I notice a co-worker’s new shirt and I just don’t like it. It’s bright and loud in a color I do not care for and I find it very unappealing. Why is my opinion about that shirt better than the wearer’s opinion? And does it really matter?

Now, let’s take that same shirt and let’s say that it is cut very low and is very immodest. The Bible tells us to dress modestly (I Timothy 2:9-10). So now I am making a judgment between right and wrong which, in fact, we are supposed to do (Matthew 7, I Thess. 5:21-22, and others).

Judgments that are based on our opinions don’t always need to be said. But sometimes they do need to be shared. For example, in committee meetings or family gatherings, when a plan is being developed or a vacation planned. At that point, we speak up with the understanding that there is really no “right” or “wrong” in the situation but that our opinion is simply based on preference.

But what we do with our biblical judgments? Are we to speak each one? This is probably worth a post all its own but, for the sake of time and space here today, let’s just nutshell it in this way: True love discerns, through prayer, when speaking truth is appropriate and is willing to confront when necessary. A lot of harm has been done by parents, pastors, teachers, and others who were simply unwilling to speak biblical truth into the lives of others because they were worried about offending.

This leads to the SECOND thing which we must consider: Are we are aware that we may have incomplete information as to why someone made a choice?

This is not regarding the actual making of judgments but, rather, about our attitudes that accompany our judgments.

When we make biblical judgments, we make them based on our own life experiences. This leads many of us to give no grace, no mercy, no lee-way for other life experiences.

So, for example, someone growing up in a Christian home will naturally know the Bible better than a baby Christian who just got saved as an adult and is learning. Do we have grace for the baby Christian who is just learning?

Or another example is that perhaps someone made a decision for a very good reason but you, looking from the outside, are not privy to the reason for that decision and are judging them for doing something unwise based on your incomplete information. We don’t always know the facts and perhaps they didn’t do anything unwise at all.

Do we give people the benefit of the doubt? Or do we fall prey to having a “holier than thou” attitude?

We only have our life experience from which to form judgements. But it’s so important to recognize that our life experiences are not the gold standard. Only the Bible can and should inform all of our judgments.

And this should lead us to grace and mercy as we remember our life is not their life. And they may have challenges about which we have no idea at all. This doesn’t mean we don’t talk with them when we see sin or worldliness. It just means we have a humble, loving attitude that acknowledges we may not know everything.


So… what if a judgment is based on scripture and you find yourself concerned about someone you love? What to do?

Our natural response is to gossip or to make sarcastic, passive-aggressive remarks letting others know how we feel. The godly response is to keep quiet and go to that person personally and find out the whole story; find out why they made the choice they did and lovingly and kindly point to the scripture that shows that it is wrong.

Can you see why correct interpretation and honest hermeneutics of God’s Word are so critical to life? There are so many manmade “rules” and “laws”—rules and laws that man has created that are simply not in scripture. And there are also so many principles and commands that go completely ignored and neglected by professing Christians who love the world.

And can you see why it’s so important to be able to recognize an opinion-based judgment from a scripture-based judgement?


I have been judged for many things throughout my life. One that sticks out in my memory is being judged for drinking orange juice with my pop-tart instead of milk. Someone made me feel like a fool because of this decision.

As I reflect on that experience, which is over twenty years ago now, I find it such an unnecessary judgement. It’s a silly example but there are so many just like it that happen every day.

Judgments like this build walls instead of building unity. They create division instead of creating a loving, safe place to grow together.

Oh, that we may recognize the difference between our subjective, opinion-based judgments and objective, scripture-based judgments. May we handle any judgment in a loving, biblical manner that will support and encourage God’s family, rather than tear it down.

The Wheat and the Tares

Recently, I decided to research some reviews for something we are preparing to buy. Reviews can be tricky because some people are never happy. But you can generally find a trend if you look hard enough.

But this got me thinking. Have you considered that religion is the one thing you are not allowed to honestly review? It’s the one thing that is considered off-limits to critique, evaluate, or examine.

Why is this?

It’s because religion, in all its forms, has become completely and utterly subjective. The individual gets to decide what is right for them (they are the judge), rather than God deciding what is good and right (He is the judge and has given us His Word to show us what is good and right).

While lots of people calling themselves Christians would never admit that they believe in universalism (everyone is going to heaven), they do believe in a form of it (everyone who “believes in Jesus” is going to heaven—no matter if their Jesus is in direct opposition to the Jesus of the Bible; no matter if they utterly ignore God’s Word; no matter that they live in sin and worldliness without conviction.)

I am not sure I realized until just now how we have been so deeply affected by relativism. Of course, I knew at some level. But it has so exponentially exploded so that you aren’t “allowed” to criticize anything. And if you do, you are the worst of the worst. You are the unloving, unkind one. YOU are the wicked, evil one.

It doesn’t matter if you have Bible verses in context as an argument. How dare you argue against someone’s opinion or feelings?

But opinions or feelings never inform true religion. My opinions and feelings are irrelevant to how Christianity is defined and lived out. And so are yours. I am no judge. None of us are. Our desire should be to proclaim the Word of God in its entirety. The Bible contains the most beautiful promises for God’s redeemed child. It also contains difficult commands that are not pleasant to my flesh. It has painful truths and delightful encouragement. Every single word of it is true and we don’t get to pick and choose what we want.

The Bible is what makes Christianity an objective religion. We don’t get to just go by our feelings, wherever they lead us. And, honestly, would we even want to? Oh, thank the Lord, we are not dependent upon our feelings for they will always end up leading us astray and away from God.

Many truths of scripture do not feel good. Many lies of the devil feel great. We can’t go by what we feel.

I was talking to one of my daughters last night and we were talking about how this subjectivity has infiltrated the churches—almost all churches— now. To the point that there are few Christians who don’t subscribe at some level to this feelings-oriented “Christianity”.

Who is saved? Who isn’t? The wheat and the tares are basically indistinguishable now (Matthew 13:24-30) and I certainly don’t know. But what I do know is that scripture is the basis for true, genuine Christianity and it will continue to be my guide, my litmus test, and my anchor.

If what someone is saying doesn’t line up with the Bible, I will be skeptical. If some famous celebrity is claiming to know Christ while boasting about still living in sin, I will assume he is lying. If some new trend comes on the scene to help me experience “God’s presence”, I will run.

Just because someone names the name of Jesus does not make them a genuine Christian. Remember—even the demons believe and tremble (James 2:17). Anyone can say words. It is our actions that prove our words.

So where does grace come in? Grace is an important word here because many people are blind to certain things. In fact, I would venture to say we are all blind at some level, no matter how much we love the Lord. It is the nature of humanity.

The other thing to remember is that true believers can resist certain truths because of what following the truth would cost them. I resisted a certain truth for 15 years. My conviction of it would come and go through those years, while I continued in a pattern of something that was not pleasing to my Savior. I praise the Lord for His patience with me over those years.

And so, we must have grace. True believers can be blind and can resist certain truths. We are not the judge and we are not God. We can’t know what is going on in any heart.

But the one thing we can do—and we can do with fervency—is pray. Ask God to save them or to grow their faith—He knows which is needed. Pray for those you see who are blind or are resisting the truth. Pray that God would open their eyes and soften their hearts.

And then, while we are at it, let’s pray the same thing for ourselves. Oh, that our eyes would be open and our hearts be teachable to the things God tells us in His Word.

We must just continue to do the next right thing as we endeavor to avoid the works of the flesh, walk in the Spirit, and crucify our flesh (Galatians 5). And this lifestyle is not burdensome to us because we have a new heart. It is the genuine Christian’s heart’s desire to live in this way and to please our Heavenly Father. Oh, our flesh may argue with us sometimes but, deep down inside, we want to be righteous.

May we not allow anyone to hoodwink us into thinking that we can worship or act any old way we want to and still follow Jesus. That is just not true, according to scripture. God has given us very specific guidance on what our lives should look like after salvation and those who are genuinely saved desire to follow this guidance.

May we hold onto the Bible with all our might as we live in the midst of this relative, subjective, groundless religion called “Christianity” (which clearly isn’t Christianity at all).

He Shall Direct Thy Paths

Proverbs 3:5-6 are probably two of the most-loved verses in all of scripture. They remind us to trust the Lord, to lean not on our own understanding, and promise us God’s direction. But as I was reading this chapter this morning, I realized that these two little verses must be taken in context. They are surrounded by some other pretty important nuggets of wisdom that can’t be overlooked if we long to trust the Lord and have Him direct our paths.

Such as…

(Vs. 1-2) we dare not forget God’s law and we must work diligently to keep His commandments. We are even told that, as a rule, doing this will give us a long life and peace. Of course, there are legitimate exceptions to this due to God’s sovereign will, but we can see how living a moral, upright life will keep us from a lot of harm.

(Vs. 3) Do not forsake mercy and truth. Can we overestimate the value of mercy and truth in the life of a believer?

Truth keeps us on the straight and narrow path and keeps us from deception. Our only hope of protection and a victorious Christian life is to love the truth of God’s Word more than we love anything else. This is easy to write but hard to live. We all have areas in which we are tempted to ignore, bypass, or outright reject the truth of scripture because the cost is so much higher than we are willing to pay. It is so important that we ask the Lord to give us courage and steadfastness and the willingness to submit to and obey His Word, no matter the cost.

Mercy is what will keep us humble as we seek to follow the truth. My grandfather used to say that “pride is a handle that fits any tool” and there is no tool that it fits better than trying to do what’s morally right and obeying God’s commands. But mercy will keep us from turning up our noses at others and will fill us with humility as we recognize that all genuine believers have victories and we all struggle—just in different ways. Mercy and grace abound in humility of heart and live in perfect harmony with Truth.

(Vs. 7) And then this most important verse after verse 6. This verse explains how we are practically able to execute verses 5 and 6.

First, we are not to be wise in our own eyes. Here we go back to pride again. Pride will keep us from submission to the Lord, it will keep us leaning on our own understanding instead of the Lord’s, it will cause us to stray from the narrow path, AND it will destroy our relationships.

Second, we are to fear the Lord. What does this mean? That we are “scared” of Him? No, of course not. The fear of the Lord means having the proper, reverential, submissive attitude towards the Lord. It means we live our lives with God at the center, instead of ourselves, holding Him in awe and recognizing His greatness, omnipotence, and glory. Earlier in this book, we read that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom (Prov. 1:7). That’s how important it is that we fear the Lord.

Third, we are to depart from evil. We cannot expect the Lord to direct our paths if we are purposely walking outside His will in sin or worldliness. Evil comes in all shapes and sizes and, through our study of God’s Word, we soon begin to understand that we have far too narrow view of this word. It goes far beyond the “awful stuff” we tend to put in its category and encompasses but is not limited to: Wicked entertainment that goes against God both morally and philosophically; immodest dress and other ways we draw attention to ourselves; an unforgiving and unloving spirit; selfishness; rebellion against God’s laws; and passion for the world’s wealth and status (just to name a few!) If we are honest with ourselves, we all have something that tempts us to do evil. This is why it is so important that we be examining our hearts and our lives on a regular basis.

(Vs. 8) Doing these three things will not only help us to trust the Lord, lean not our understanding, and help us discern God’s direction for our path; but they will also make us healthy spiritually. They will enable us to live a victorious Christian life.

Sometimes we can oversimplify the words of God. And, while loving just two verses we pull out of scripture isn’t necessarily bad, it is so important that we study our favorite passages in the context which they are given. We will get so much more from God’s Word when we take the time to meditate upon our favorite verses in their proper context.

𝘔𝘺 𝘴𝘰𝘯, 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘨𝘦𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘮𝘺 𝘭𝘢𝘸;
𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘭𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴:
𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘵𝘩 𝘰𝘧 𝘥𝘢𝘺𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦,
𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘦, 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘥𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘦.
𝘓𝘦𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘮𝘦𝘳𝘤𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘦:
𝘣𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘬;
𝘸𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘶𝘱𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵:
𝘚𝘰 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘢𝘷𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨
𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘎𝘰𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘯.
𝘛𝘳𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘖𝘙𝘋 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵;
𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘯 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨.
𝘐𝘯 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢𝘤𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸𝘭𝘦𝘥𝘨𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘮,
𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘥𝘪𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘴.
𝘉𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘴𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘦𝘺𝘦𝘴:
𝘧𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘓𝘖𝘙𝘋, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘭.
𝘐𝘵 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘯𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘭,
𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘺 𝘣𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴.
* Proverbs 3:1-8 *

Seeing It in Real Life

The other day my daughter and son-in-law were driving on a road that winds through a mountain. Just as the road begins to curve uphill, there is a lot off to the right where people can park their cars while they spend a few hours hiking in the woods.

On this particular day, they saw something they had never seen before. A large tree had blown over onto a parked car in that lot and destroyed it. There were some hikers who would come back to a very unpleasant surprise.

Now, we know that that tree did not just topple over all of a sudden. There were many things that happened before that moment. Things that would weaken its roots. Things that would render it unhealthy and unable to withstand the pressures from outside itself. Things that would make it vulnerable to the wet, soft ground and the strong winds that would eventually come.

This is a great analogy for what’s been happening in churches, big and small. Churches found in the city and in the middle of nowhere and everywhere in between. Little by little, they have been invaded by false doctrine through the principles of mysticism, couched in terms that sound lovely and spiritual and, often, even biblical. Their roots of biblical faith have been eaten away until there are barely any left.

It’s been done so subtly and so gradually that most of us didn’t realize that the visible church, as a rule, was fatally wounded and ready to topple over until it was far too late. Many still don’t know and, to be frank, are really not interested in knowing. (I am not referring to the true Church, which is made up of God’s dear, redeemed children and comprises the remnant which can never be destroyed.)

Last week I shared my daughter’s post about Spiritual Formation and the danger it is to believers. Spiritual formation is simply one term for the mysticism (occultism) that has entered the church. It has also come in under terms like contemplative prayer, lectio divina, labyrinth, circles, dreams, visions, visualization, the “Presence”, meditation, the “silence”, and so many others.

It’s entered (and continues to enter) through books, movies, music, devotionals, sermons, and popular speakers. It can be a bit overwhelming now, although once we can see the paradigm, we realize that this has been going on for years and years. Honestly, I didn’t see it for a long, long time but once you see it you just can’t unsee it.

After the post was shared last week, a reader reached out to me about the Our Daily Bread devotional and her personal research into it (I’ll share more on that further down) and I wondered if it would be helpful to share just few ways I have seen this philosophy worm its way into our lives as believers. It’s so much more prevalent than any of us realize.

I am purposely keeping the following examples vague so as not to divulge any confidential information but I can assure you that these have all happened.


A reader reached out to me shortly after the post and told me she had been reading Our Daily Bread when one of the devotions raised a red flag. (This is that little book that so many Christians use for their devotions each day.) She decided to do some research and what she found was shocking. The author of this particular devotional (Will Collier) is not only way deep into spiritual formation but his wife is clearly new age. She asked if I would do some research and I, too, was shocked at what I found to be expressed clearly on their own websites. Our Daily Bread is in almost every solid church in our area. These devotions are changing the way people believe and think, little by little.

I decided to do some more digging on this popular devotional. Just who are all these authors who are feeding us spiritual bread? Here is what else I found—

-An author who has written a biography about author, Brennan Manning. Manning is one of the first to bring spiritual formation into our modern day church through his book Ragamuffin Gospel. This author also extols Eugene Peterson’s “Message” Bible, which is a new age version of the Bible and to be avoided at all costs.

-One author is a Spiritual Director, associated with the Coracle and with the London Centre of Spiritual Direction. Both websites are chock full of spiritual formation and occultic quotes and resources.

-Another author attends a “social justice church” that welcomes women pastors.

There were other concerns, as well. I didn’t research each author and, to be honest, some of the authors seemed okay. However, I researched enough to know that the devotional is deeply compromised and I would not personally choose to read it. These folks are brilliant at making things sound biblical. It is only when you step back and evaluate it against all of scripture, in context, and through the lens of traditional Christianity (as it’s been defined for the past two thousand years) that you can see the deadly transformation they are bringing in.


It was brought to our attention recently that a family we know has started attending a church we know little about. My husband decided to bring up their most recent live-streamed service. The sermon was on hearing God speak. It was poorly defended from scripture with one out-of-context passage and a very condescending attitude towards those who don’t believe God is still speaking (bless their sorry souls). Mysticism. Right there it was. If God isn’t speaking to you personally then you are a sorry soul. It’s experience that matters. The Word is important, but not as important as hearing from God personally. Yeah—make sure what you are hearing aligns with the Word but one has to wonder if this pastor honestly means this, since he is handling God’s Word so carelessly and clearly doesn’t care about hermeneutics at all.


Recently, I read a fiction book by Elizabeth Musser, an author I’ve read before (but probably with less discerning eyes, as I wasn’t very aware at that point yet). In this particular book, the characters had visions from and encounters with “Jesus”. These encounters were not questioned in any way and it was assumed that Jesus was the speaker. At this point, I was tempted to put it down but decided to continue for the very purpose to see how bad it would be. And it did get worse. At one point, one of her main characters received “peace with God” through an encounter, rather than through the genuine Gospel of scripture. And, while scripture was used and quoted in the book, the entire Gospel message was sidelined through these encounters with “Jesus”. These were the catalysts that brought change. The Bible and what it says had nothing to do with what brought true and lasting change in this dangerous book.

Fiction is really dangerous. Whether it be through reading or film, it tends to open up a Pandora’s box of false teaching in a palatable way. It’s a brilliant scheme really and for two reasons—first, most people just let their guards down when they are reading or watching something that they know is “just a story” and, second, because even if we know it’s false, we are always impacted at some level by what we read and watch. We can deny this but it’s true, nonetheless. And when it is labeled “Christian” it is teaching lessons that will affect how we think about God and what we think about His Word.


A church welcomes a special speaker who proceeds to lead the congregation in a visualization exercise in order to encourage them to get right with God. It is grossly unbiblical and purely occultic.


A church announces they are going to be studying a book about prayer in a small group study. When the book is researched, it is found to be full of spiritual formation and, in fact, will clearly teach their congregation to turn away from scripture and to turn towards mysticism.


These are just a few examples. I could give dozens and dozens of examples. I’m sure many of you could give examples, as well. It used to be subtle, but now it is not so subtle and it is literally everywhere.

So what to do? Here are a few suggestions…

First, there are a few things to look for as you seek to discern. Whether it be a sermon, a book, a show, or a song, what are they teaching you about Jesus? About sin? What emphasis are they placing on the Bible? What are they presenting as the way to be “close to God”? Is it through experience or is it through obedience to the Word? These are some questions that will help you discern.

Second, realize we aren’t changing the direction of the visible church overall. The ship has sailed. Most churches are fatally compromised and, while we can stand up in our particular church, do not expect any praise or glory if you do. Rather, expect to be ostracized, sidelined, and ignored. Ridicule and antagonism also might be part of the package. It’s just not an easy road to take and it mostly ends in disappointment and discouragement. It’s why this path is rarely chosen by any genuine believer. If you’ve experienced it, you realize you are spared a lot of heartache by keeping quiet. It’s a very sad state of affairs but this is where we find ourselves if we care about truth at all. If and when we choose to speak up, it’s so critically important that we do so with humility and love. Harshness and pride will make things so much worse.

Third, recognize that, while we can’t change the world, we can change our own lives and the lives of our families. We can be protecting our selves by, first, loving God and the truth He has given us in His Word more than we love anything else. And, in loving and knowing God’s Word, we can begin the process of eradicating compromised teachers and resources from our lives. We can be protecting our families by being careful of the resources we give to them and by the thought-provoking conversations we have with them.

Fourth, we can plant seeds. While it is true that most Christians just don’t want to hear the truth about how compromised Christianity is, there are some who do. Plant those seeds of truth as God gives you opportunity. Sprinkle those seeds in discussions about the Bible and about church. Toss them out during your family dinners and dinners out with friends. You never know what fruit they will bear. There will be a few who actually want to know. There will be a few who are thankful. It won’t be many, but there will be a few.


I have been saying we are in the last days for many years now. I still firmly believe this, although we cannot know how long the last days will last. But one of the main reasons I believe we are in the last days is because of this right here. Mysticism has completely hijacked biblical Christianity and most are not even aware.

So how do we make sure we are a tree that stands tall and strong and won’t be vulnerable to the false doctrine that eats away at our spiritual roots? How do we be sure to stay healthy spiritually so that we can withstand this storm of mysticism that is blowing fiercely all around us?

There is only one way and that is to stay close to the Lord through His Word and prayer, praying specifically for discernment and protection in the midst of this false Christianity that has touched every area of the world and swirls wildly around all of us. Study, submit to, and obey the Bible. Love the Lord by obeying His commands.

There is no new-fangled, easier way to be close to God through our personal experience. God’s Word can never be sidelined in the life of a thriving and growing believer. It is timeless and it has never changed and it will never change. The Bible is God’s very Word given to us and it will always be the key to living a victorious Christian life—no matter how many popular authors and celebrity preachers tell you otherwise!

The grass withereth, the flower fadeth:
but the word of our God shall stand for ever.
(Isaiah 40:8)

The Danger of Spiritual Formation

As many of you know, my oldest daughter writes at Anchor for the Soul (found on Facebook and Instagram). She’s been extremely busy with her young family but she did find some time to dig into the spiritual formation movement recently and find out just what it’s about. I want to share what she shared here on the blog (with her permission) since I know you aren’t all on social media and also because it is easier to print and to share with others who aren’t on social media from this platform.

I don’t feel like we Christians, as a whole, recognize the danger of spiritual formation and how it is changing the entire landscape of what has been known traditionally as “Christianity”. It’s been going on for years, but has taken on a life of its own in the last twenty or so years, carving and creating a new religion that uses the same terms we use and claims to worship the same God we worship, and read the same Bible we read and, yet, clearly—when evaluated, the two religions—biblical Christianity and Christianity formed by spiritual formation principles—are as different as day and night. And, in fact, one represents day and light and the other represents night and darkness.

I hope what is written below will help us all discern as this movement snakes its way into college classrooms, board rooms, and churches. I hope this will help us be aware of what’s going on and evaluate it according to scripture.


Spiritual formation is currently taking the Christian world by storm. Nearly every Christian college and seminary is teaching it. It’s the topic of popular Christian books, articles, and podcasts. Churches are recommending it, small groups are studying it, and pastors are preaching about it. But what is spiritual formation? Is it something Christians should embrace, ignore, or oppose?

Richard Foster was one of the first to introduce the idea of spiritual formation to the evangelical world. He defined it as “a God-ordained process [of spiritual disciplines] that shapes our entire person so that we take on the character and being of Christ Himself.” Someone else defined it as “active participation with the Holy Spirit through spiritual practices that leads to our conformity to Christ.” Those definitions don’t seem too bad at first glance. But what are these spiritual disciplines and practices?

Biblical disciplines such as Bible study and prayer are framed as quaint and simplistic. In fact, most spiritual formation experts would tell you that these disciplines are forged from a “western worldview of the head” and can only lead you so far in your spiritual journey. If you want to go deeper— to connect with God, experience His presence, and become like Him— you need more. If you’re tired of living a boring, Christian life and have grown weary of the superficial modern church— you’re missing something. And what is this more you’re missing? Disciplines practiced by the spiritual masters of old.

𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐂𝐄

So-called desert fathers and mothers set up the first monastic communities in the Egyptian wilderness and lived as hermits during the third to sixth centuries. These men and women claimed to have encountered and experienced God on a deeper level and received direct revelation from Him. These are the very ones that spiritual formation experts (such as Richard Foster, Dallas Willard, Bruce Demarest, and John Mark Comer) call the “spiritual masters” and from whom they draw their understanding of spiritual formation. Others who followed after these desert fathers and mothers include St. Francis of Assisi, St. John of the Cross, Brother Lawrence, Teresa of Avila, Henri Nouwen, Julian of Norwich, Francis De Sales, Thomas Keating, and Thomas Merton. A quick Google search will reveal that these individuals were all Catholic priests, monks, or nuns and every single one of them was a mystic seeking union with God through occult practices.

Many, if not all, of the classic spiritual disciplines within the spiritual formation movement are drawn from the writings of these individuals. They are quoted endlessly by proponents of spiritual formation. You will not find one book on the topic of spiritual formation that does not find itself unashamedly rooted in Catholic mysticism.

And herein lies the first problem— 𝐢𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐜𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐝, 𝐂𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐜 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐬, 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐭 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐲 𝐛𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐆𝐨𝐝?

𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐂𝐈𝐏𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐄𝐒

Each author or speaker on spiritual formation will most likely offer a unique list of spiritual disciplines. But here are a few of the most common:

silence & solitude— removing all noise and distractions so that you can simply sit in silence and be present with God
contemplative prayer & meditation— a practice involving clearing one’s mind so you can better connect with God and listen for His voice and guidance
lectio divina— reading a passage over and over, being drawn into God’s presence and experiencing Him through Scripture
fasting— abstaining from food, drink or other activities for a certain amount of time
confession— confessing your sins to someone
simplicity— living a life of simplicity
chastity— stepping away from sexual activity for a certain amount of time
generosity and service— giving of your time, money, and resources to bless and serve others
sabbath rest— choosing one day of the week to step away from work, chores, and distractions
community— cultivating a close-knit community around you
worship— worshipping God in song, actions, or words
justice— pursuing justice in the world around you
journaling— writing in a spiritual journal
observing the liturgical calendar— advent, lent, easter, and pentecost

Of course, they often include reading the Bible and prayer amongst these disciplines but one thing they make clear— they are not enough. They only reach the head while the rest of them reach the heart.

The beginning of this list reveals the second problem— 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐦. These include silence, solitude, meditation, contemplative prayer, and lectio divina. They might couch them in Christian terminology but there can be no “Christian version” of occult practices.

God did not provide the supernatural encounters and visions experienced by the Catholic mystics through these practices. That was Satan. If spiritual formation gurus are practicing the same things and seeking the same experiences, they will be met with the same result— experiences that they attribute to God but are of the devil himself.

Some of these disciplines seem like good things. Is it good to be generous, take a day of rest, cultivate community, fast, worship, confess our sins, and serve? Yes. But do those things, in and of themselves, sanctify us and makes us like Christ? No. And this leads us to the third problem.

𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐏𝐇𝐈𝐋𝐎𝐒𝐎𝐏𝐇𝐘

They will tell you that the process of practicing spiritual disciplines is what makes us like Christ. They will tell you that spiritual formation is the way in which we are sanctified, transformed, abide, and set apart. It’s the way we take up our cross and follow Jesus. We become more like Christ not through the Word of God but through experiencing God, connecting with God, encountering Him, or “entering into the inner life of God” through spiritual practices.

But is this Biblical? Does Scripture teach any of these disciplines as a means of spiritual growth and progressive sanctification? Let’s find out what the Bible tells us about being transformed, sanctified, and made like Christ.

2 Thess. 2:13— by the power of the spirit through belief in the truth
John 17:17— through the Word of God
2 Timothy 3:16-17— through the Word of God
James 1:2— through suffering
Hebrews 4:12-16— through the Word of God and prayer
2 Peter 1:3— through knowledge of Christ
Ephesians 4:11-16— through the preaching of the Word
Romans 12:2— through the renewing of our minds in the Truth
Galatians 5:16— walking with the spirit, denying the flesh

The Bible is very clear. We are sanctified or made holy by the power of the Holy Spirit through the Word of God. Not just simply reading it but trusting it and obeying it. We pray for God to transform us and change us. We grow in faith through the Word preached and discipleship in the Word from other believers. We learn to love God and others not by experiencing or encountering God in some mystical way but through the knowledge of Him as revealed in His Word. So here’s the third problem— 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐦𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰𝐭𝐡.

So how can Christian authors be so assertive in recommending them?

𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐈𝐑 𝐁𝐈𝐁𝐋𝐈𝐂𝐀𝐋 “𝐄𝐕𝐈𝐃𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄”

Spiritual formation proponents have to give some sort of Biblical foundation for spiritual formation if it’s going to reach a Christian audience. So how do they do it? How have they convinced thousands of people that occult practices rooted in Catholicism are the God-ordained means of sanctification in the life of a believer?

First, they tell you that these practices were so integrated into the lives of the New Testament authors that they didn’t even need to write them down. They were already being practiced by the apostles and the early church and we should follow their example. But the Lord has given us all the teachings and practices He wants us to follow within His Word. There is no secret key to a deeper spiritual life found outside of it.

Secondly, they’ll tell you that Jesus practiced the spiritual disciplines and that we must follow His example. Jesus practiced solitude and silence when he went away by Himself to pray. He practiced simplicity by living a simple life. He practiced secrecy when he healed away from the crowds. He practiced community by surrounding Himself with the disciples. He practiced celebration, fasting, sabbath rest, and justice. To model our life after Jesus is to practice these things.

This is problematic on so many levels. First, they are inferring that Jesus was practicing some kind of mystical solitude or meditation when He went off alone to pray. That’s quite an assumption. And to take His lone actions and call it a “practice” or a “discipline” we need to follow— without one Scripture reference to back it up— is far-reaching at best. Jesus Christ had plenty to say and never once did He talk about a practice or discipline as described by the spiritual formation movement.

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐣𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦— 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐁𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐟 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐁𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥.

𝐂𝐎𝐍𝐂𝐋𝐔𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍

Spiritual formation asks some important questions. Is there something deeper than the superficial Christianity we see today in the modern church? What does it really look like to be a disciple of Jesus? How do we change and become more like Christ? But they give all the wrong answers.

The true answer is Biblical faith. We read the Bible, we believe the Bible, and we obey the Bible. That’s true faith in a nutshell. God, in His grace, opens our eyes to the truth of the Gospel and His Word and we submit to it. The Holy Spirit changes us— little by little— and makes us like Christ through the Word. Of course, we won’t know all of the Bible at once. But we trust and obey what we do know and continue to do the same thing as we learn it more. Sometimes feelings are there and sometimes they’re not but we choose to trust it anyways. God’s Word is the key to genuine faith, true discipleship, and transformation into the image of Christ.

But in spiritual formation, God’s Word takes a back seat and experience reigns supreme. How do you know you have true faith? Experiencing God’s presence and encountering Him through these spiritual disciplines. How do you become a disciple and follower of Christ? By practicing His way of life. How do you become more like Jesus? Through a list of disciplines that somehow the Holy Spirit will use to supernaturally transform you into the image of Christ. Even if those disciplines are rooted in mysticism and are never mentioned in Scripture.

The danger is that unbiblical practices will give people a real spiritual experience, but not from God. God puts a boundary around the means by which we come to Him and grow in Him for our own protection. If we ignore the Biblical guidelines, there is no telling where we might end up. Deception is the guaranteed outcome. Spiritual formation is nothing more than mysticism wrapped up in Christian language.

What makes spiritual formation so tricky is that not only do they ask good questions but they often say good things- slowing down and removing distractions, cultivating community, confessing our sins to one another, being generous with our time and money, making time to pray and study. But they don’t present those things within a Biblical framework. They’re presented within a mystical framework.

I’ve really just scratched the surface of the dangers of this movement. They redefine sin, hell, atonement, the purpose of the Gospel, and Jesus Christ. They expertly couch new age, occult philosophies in Christian terminology. They’ve usurped the purpose of sanctification from becoming holy to simply becoming “a person of love”. The battle against sin, flesh, and the world in the life of a Christian is ignored. Perhaps I’ll touch on these things in another post. But for now, I hope you find this information helpful!

Hopelessly Flawed

Every now and again, I bear a bit of my soul here on the blog. I am going to do that today.

Getting old is not all that fun. Now, don’t get me wrong—there are some amazing blessings in the process. For me, personally, some of these have been my adult children becoming my friends, my precious grandchildren, and wisdom learned from really hard lessons. But there is a lot of grief (for a variety of reasons) involved in the process of getting older, as well. One of the most shallow reasons for grief is the loss of outward beauty.

I honestly cannot remember the last time I looked in a mirror and liked what I saw. I don’t say this to garner any comments (please do not comment) but I share this for a very specific reason.

Now, if I’m honest, I never did think I was that much to look at. It’s not like I was some great beauty even in my youth. But as I’ve gotten older, unsightly brown spots have made their appearance all over my arms and legs. Worse yet, a few large ones decided to settle on my face. My weight has crept up and the pounds seem to want to take up permanent residence unless I make drastic lifestyle changes—changes that I just can’t find the energy to make with everything going on in my life. My hair has darkened into an unattractive, lackluster shade, complete with some unsymmetrical streaks of gray around my temples. All in all, it has been a discouraging turn of events.

But here’s the thing: This is life.

There are things we can do to rid ourselves of these things. We can have the dermatologist remove brown spots (but they can return). We can work hard to lose weight but, if we are someone who loves food, the battle is real. (I remember talking with an elderly friend years ago who battled her flesh in this area her whole life. I can so relate.) We can color our hair. We can have surgery for unsightly varicose veins. We can get nose jobs and Botox and plump our lips artificially.

But in the end, we will get old. We can’t stop it from happening. And, in fact, unless we are making unhealthy or undisciplined choices, what is happening is natural.

Did older women used to stress about these things? Back before there was a push to stay young forever; back before “youth” was the be-all end-all… did they care about the extra pounds around their middle? Did they get so upset about nature taking its course on their body? How much of this is cultural?

But that’s another conversation for another day. I am writing today because I want to share the lesson I have been learning as I have been working through all of this. You see, what is happening in my heart and mind is so much more important than what is happening to me physically.

When I look in the mirror and am filled with discontentment, I am focused on the wrong thing. I am being ungrateful, I am being self-absorbed, I am being worldly.

Any focus on self—whether it be negative or positive is simply self-absorption at the core. Self-esteem is not a biblical concept—no matter what “Christian” promotes it. We are to live for God and not for self.

Looking in the mirror with discontent is wrong. Looking in the mirror with a boastful heart is wrong. Both are wrong.

Let me share a story. This is fictional.

Once upon a time, there were three sisters. They were very close to one another but one day, a dreadful argument began between the three of them that lasted for days. Their feelings towards each other and their frustration spilled out on to the people around them, sowing discord and contention.

Finally, they sat down to talk it out. Instead of blame, they began to think of things for which they were grateful for regarding the other person. The humility of this act brought about the necessary spirit for forgiveness and healing. At the end, one sister said this statement:

We are all so hopelessly flawed.

Wow. How true is this? We are all so hopelessly flawed. I am just so hopelessly flawed.

I can recognize this when I am dissatisfied with how I look. I should be grateful! God has given me so very much to be thankful for! There are so many things my body is able to do each day. So many ways in which God allows me to enjoy life through the use of my arms and legs. There is always something to be thankful for and it changes our attitudes.

And, yet, I can find myself mourning what used to be. This is a hopelessly flawed response.

Paul tells us in Philippians to press on and not look behind (3:13-14)—

Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

Growing older isn’t something to be ashamed of. And it’s not something to be proud of. It just is. It’s just one stage in a series of stages we all live through—none is more important than another. They just are.

No matter what age we are, we can find things for which we can be grateful.

Never regret growing older,

It’s a privilege denied to many.

But, since we are talking about flaws, I may as well confess that I am hopelessly flawed in so many areas of my life, not just this one. The older I get the more I realize this. It can be so very discouraging.

When the three sisters from the story admitted that they were all so hopelessly flawed, they realized how much they needed each other. And that’s so true, isn’t it? We all have strengths and weaknesses and we need each other.

We don’t always appreciate the ways in which others are not like us but if we were all alike, it would be a sad world indeed.

I thank God for His Sovereignty in bringing just the right people into my life—whether for a lifetime or for just a small window of time. Nothing is an accident.

Just think how some of the most frustrating and hurtful people in your life taught you some of life’s most important lessons—patience, forgiveness, not holding grudges, and how to love unconditionally.

God truly does use the people we encounter to grow us to look more like Jesus (Romans 8:28-29), whether it be to support and encourage us or to teach us really hard lessons.

But the sisters missed the most important thing. It was a secular story so I expected this. But being hopelessly flawed doesn’t only remind us why we need each other but, so much more importantly, this reminds us why we need Jesus. Only Jesus can cover our hopelessly flawed self with His righteousness. This is why He died and rose again—to enable our hopelessly flawed selves to be right with God and to live forever with Him. Only Jesus!

And so, while recognizing our flaws can be very discouraging, they also serve as a reminder of how much we need Jesus. I am nothing without Him. None of us are.

May we turn our focus from self to God. From our feelings to God’s Word. From discontentment to gratitude. From frustration to patience. From irritation to kindness. For this is how we can be sure to keep growing in the Lord and be a blessing to those around us.

Easier said than done, yes. But God…

A Change in Affections

If I’ve heard it once, I’ve heard it a hundred times. A pastor or a speaker shares “the Gospel”. It goes something like this:

“Are you struggling today? Do you feel lost and alone? Jesus can help you. He will meet your needs and be there for you in this life. And, if that’s not enough, remember that you get to spend eternity in heaven if you ‘accept Him’.”

Okay, so I am being a bit facetious but, in a nutshell, that is basically how the Gospel is presented.

But that isn’t the Gospel. This kind of “gospel” can be more likened to a self-improvement course.

The Gospel isn’t about accepting a god who will help us fulfill our dreams and fix our problems. It isn’t about a golden ticket to heaven.

And, while Jesus does love us and He will help us and He most certainly is the only way to spend eternity in heaven, He died for our sin. He died so that we can be right with our just God. He died so that we may LIVE. Not to live for self but to live for GOD. And He rose again to give us victory over sin and death.

He did not die and rise again so that we can have a happy life with less problems and fulfilled dreams.

About sin… do we even think we really sin all that much? And if we think about our sin, do we think it is that big of a deal?

Let’s look at sin from a different perspective, shall we? The root of all sin is selfishness. Anything done out of selfishness is sinful.

Now think about yourself in light of this truth. Do you, like me, grow a bit squirmy when sin is thought of in that light?

The tricky thing is that selfishness can masquerade as goodness. Many people are nice because it furthers their own goals. Many choose to be outwardly moral for their own selfish reason. They can look “holy” for their own selfish gain. They can be “cooperative and kind” because of their hatred of conflict and how uncomfortable it makes them feel.

Not all selfishness presents itself as ugly or negative.

And therein is the issue. SIN is far deeper and far broader than most of us have been taught.

I picked up a book this morning entitled Selfishness: The Essence of Moral Depravity written by a pastor who lived a few centuries ago named Nathanael Emmons.

The following quote is from the introduction of this book. It is worth sharing here, as I do believe that the church has been greatly deceived as a whole and has turned to a false Gospel—the Gospel of self-love to improve one’s temporal life—

The message of what is called the Gospel today is really nothing more than appeals to self-love which, in reality, is what people must repent of in order to be truly saved. We must repent of our selfishness rather than try to be religious and moral based on selfish motives (i.e. what helps me or benefits me the most.)…

…All over the world we encourage people to turn from sinful actions because it is good for them. But if they turn from sin from a principle of selfishness, then sinful self is being strengthened even as people are appearing more holy on the outside. We need to understand the true nature of sin in order to show people what true repentance is. Jesus told us that “if anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23). The Pharisees were not willing to do that. They were willing to be very religious but they would not deny self. Instead they prayed for self, gave alms to self, and fasted for self (Matthew 6:2, 6, 16). They did all of their religious actions out of love to self rather than love for God. They were their own idols and all that they did in the outward practice of religion was moved by acts of self-love rather than love for God. If we do not have a true understanding of what sin really is, we cannot truly repent from the heart. We must understand the truth about sin or we will not be saved from sin. (Emphasis mine)

We can see then how…

The very system of the devil has been set up as orthodoxy in America in many places. We can see how the thinking of many, if not most within the professing Church has swallowed the teaching that self-love is the essence of morality when in fact it is the very essence of immorality and is living in the likeness of the devil. His (the author’s) next point is devastating: “If sinners are constantly under the governing influence of selfishness, then they must experience an essential change in their affections, in order to be saved.” In modern America it is taught that the very essence of sin is what moves us to be moral and yet those are the things that must be repented of in order to be saved. How diabolical and deceptive of the devil to set up his kingdom in the hearts of men and women by the teaching of many who are externally orthodox and actually use the Bible to justify their false teaching. How utterly deceptive to use the pulpits and the classrooms in America to preach and teach rebellion against God as the cure for sin. (Emphasis mine)

This has really got me thinking. If self-love and self-preservation are what turn us to Jesus, then do we really get salvation at all? If we are simply turning to Him to improve our lives and to give us a future that is pleasant, do we understand the heart of the Gospel?

I don’t think we can. And, while I think we all struggle with examining our hearts and our motives, true salvation means coming to the place where we recognize the wickedness of our own hearts and we fall on our knees at the feet of Jesus, begging His forgiveness and grace.

Some of us will come to that realization as we grow in the Lord and others have that happen immediately. But true salvation will eventually lead to this place. It has to.

The transformation of a true believer is the change in their affections. A change from self-seeking to seeking the Lord. A change from self-glory to God’s glory. Oh, not perfectly, but there is a recognition of our waywardness and there is a desire to seek God first before self, although we fail so often.

Where there is no change of affections nor even a recognition that there should be any change, there is not salvation. Scripture makes this so clear and yet so many hate this truth.

And can I be honest for a moment? I don’t particularly care for this truth, either. For its ramifications are truly terrifying. And yet truth is truth.

Truth is truth. Whether we like a certain truth or not is irrelevant. And that is hard for us “feelings-oriented” people to swallow, isn’t it?

May we pray for wisdom as we search for the truth and may we pray that God will help us to yield our selfish feelings and desires to His truth.

The Pretender

There is a story that was written a long time ago called The Hidden Hand.

In that story was a criminal named Black Donald. The story is full of interesting twists and turns but, suffice it to say, a few of Black Donald’s sidekicks ended up in jail. That is the setting.

The girl and her motherly chaperone went to the fair. There they found the revival tent of Reverend Grey. Reverend Grey was thin and frail and elderly. The chaperone was drawn to him from the start. Not in a romantic way but as to someone who was solid in the faith; as someone who spoke the truth with charisma. And spoke the truth of God’s Word he did.

The idea was put forth that he visit the town prisoners. They’d been there for several months now and they were as hardened as ever.

Reverend Grey was frightened and refused, at first. But, eventually, he worked up his courage and said he would go.

The day after he went, the prisoners escaped.

How do you think that happened?

It happened because the very “biblical”, self-effacing man called Reverend Grey was not a reverend at all but was, rather, Black Donald himself. He had starved himself until he looked just a shadow of himself and then he had carefully put a very convincing costume together, along with the right expressions and knowing the right words.

He did what he needed to do to reach his goal. And his goal was to get his friends out of prison. It worked just as he had hoped.

This is a story. Written in the dramatic, Victorian style, it is a bit far-fetched, at that (although a fun read, for sure!) But I cannot help but think of how many “Black Donalds” we have in our midst today.

People pretending to be something they are not. People with selfish goals of money and power (to name a couple) who will do anything to get them. There are other goals. Goals much more nefarious as there are those who are working to bring in the antichrist system and fully know what they are doing.

What is happening in Christianity today is a critical component of this deception. You cannot have a religion that is based on the Bible if you want to bring in the one world religion. You have to get people’s eyes off the Bible and on to their experiences (mysticism).

Satan, called the Angel of Light for a very good reason (2 Corinthians 11:14) has devised very subtle, very devious ways to work his way into our minds and uproot the biblical roots planted there by godly parents, pastors, and teachers from the past.

This is mostly done through very attractive, very “humble”, very “biblical-sounding” people. People very much like Reverend Grey, who come across sincere, self-effacing, and humble.

Our only hope—truly—our ONLY HOPE, is to compare everything to Scripture. Every. Thing. We cannot make a judgment about them based on their personality, their attitudes, their niceness, their charisma and way with words…and then simply choose to trust them.

As humans, we have a tendency to do that but it is so dangerous. Especially now. Instilling Mysticism in the minds of those who call themselves Christians is absolutely critical for Satan to succeed in bringing in what we read in scripture. We know many will be deceived in the last days. That time is now. We must pay attention.

Let me give you four recent examples from my own life of this deception and how it’s coming in from all directions—

First, I started reading a novel. It is by a “Christian” author whom I have read before. As I began to read, I noticed her penchant to add special revelation (God speaking, dreams, visions) in the lives of most of her characters. She is opening the door and her readers are walking through it. Contemplating this is moving the biblical reader from basing their faith on the Bible to just beginning to consider that perhaps there is more. Oh, she uses the Bible, too. The Bible is always around in these scenarios. But the most important thing is that Jesus Himself is talking to these people and this is more important than scripture.

Second, someone recently told me about a book they are reading for research purposes. It is a wildly popular book amidst the younger generation and the whole thing turns biblical Christianity upside down on its head. It completely turns “Christianity” into a form of Mysticism. One book. But not only this book. There have been many books doing this for the past twenty or so years. Books labeled “Christian” that are anything but. I caution you about reading anything that is on trend. There is generally a reason these books have made it to the bestseller list.

Third, there was recently a “Worship Night” on American Idol. I could probably write a whole post on this alone and I actually thought about it but I didn’t have the time to do the research that needed to be done for it. Suffice it to say, that at least three of the performers in that concert have been researched by myself in the past and they are not biblical in any way. They have wonderful voices and they may sing an occasional biblical song, but their lives are unholy and they embrace the world and its ways while claiming to follow Christ, something that we clearly cannot do, according to scripture. They remove people’s eyes from the Bible by living lives that give no heed to what it says whatsoever. And, yet, many Christians are declaring that we are having a REVIVAL. No, we are not. What we are having is an explosion of a false religion called by the name of Christianity that is moving people from the Bible into mysticism.

And, fourth, and finally, I think I’ve mentioned this before but there is this belief pervading the minds of so many now that we can’t really trust the Word of God. That we can decide how to interpret it. And the way I interpret it might be different than how you interpret it. Do you see how this, too, is instrumental in moving people from believing in the absolute Word of God to trusting in their own subjective thoughts about the Word of God?


Oh, I personally find the “Christianity” of today terrifying on so many levels. It’s chaotic. It’s confusing. How do you even share the Gospel in the midst of such deception and falsehood?

But God…

It’s not up to us to convince people to see the truth. It’s not up to us to change their minds. We just need to keep living our lives and speaking the truth, planting seeds as we get opportunity.

And we need to pray. Pray that God would keep us from deception in the midst of this tsunami of deception that is all around us everywhere. We need to pray for wisdom and discernment as we navigate all of this. And we need to know our Bibles.

Our only hope to survive all of this is through humble prayer and studying the Bible with a heart willing to submit and obey what it says, through the help of the Holy Spirit.

I may sound like a broken record, but I believe that with my whole heart and it’s the main reason why I am still here on this blog writing today.

On our own, we will be vulnerable to deception. But with God and with His Word, we will be equipped to travel through this modern-day “Christianity” and see the lies for what they are.

Stay strong, my friends, and don’t get discouraged. We are not alone, for God has promised to walk with us through this challenging time of history. And, one of these days, Jesus will return for us just as He promised and the battle will be over forever. Oh, I hope that day comes soon!

Lift Your Glad Voices!

There is nothing like death to remind us that this life is fragile and fleeting. Whether it comes with a shock or it comes gradually, it is a deeply painful process.

A few years ago, I memorized I Corinthians 15:55-57–

O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory? The sting of death is sin; and the strength of sin is the law. But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

This passage takes on such deeper meaning when death hits a fellow believer for it teaches us that we have victory over death through our Lord Jesus Christ.

How can this be?

Because when Christ rose from the grave, He rose victorious over death! And so we do not weep as those who have no hope.

But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him. (I Thess. 4:13-14).

Over the course of the past year, I have attended what feels like far too many funerals. And I have noticed something: There is a generally striking difference in the funerals of the saved and the unsaved.

It is because when a redeemed child of God says good-bye to this old world, it is not final. For all of us who are redeemed, death is not the final answer. We will see them again in glory, just as the Bible says.

As we approach the morning we celebrate Christ’s resurrection, I have been reminded of all that Christ accomplished on the cross. Christ’s death and resurrection is the most blessed, most important, most loving, and most incredible thing that has ever happened in this world.

Faith in Jesus Christ alone leads to LIFE. It leads to victory over DEATH. So that even when a believer dies, they are not saying a final good-bye but, rather, “see you later”.

From our human, earthly perspective, death does really sting, doesn’t it? It’s painful and full of grief. It’s an event like no other in the lives of those who loved the departed one.

But it is not final if the one we loved is a redeemed child of God. We will see them again. And that sting we feel is only temporary, as we look forward to that day we will meet Jesus face to face and have that glorious reunion with all those who went on to heaven before us!

Death is not final and it’s all because of Jesus. May we lift our glad voices in triumph on high, for Jesus hath risen, and man shall not die!

LIFT YOUR GLAD VOICES

Lift your glad voices in triumph on high,
For Jesus hath risen, and man shall not die.
Vain were the terrors that gathered around Him,
And short the dominion of death and the grave;
He burst from the fetters of darkness that bound Him,
Resplendent in glory to live and to save!
Loud was the chorus of angels on high,
“The Savior hath risen, and man shall not die.”

Glory to God, in full anthems of joy;
The being He gave us death cannot destroy.
Sad were the life we must part with tomorrow,
If tears were our birthright, and death were our end;
But Jesus hath cheered the dark valley of sorrow,
And bade us, immortal, to Heaven ascend.
Lift then your voices in triumph on high,
For Jesus hath risen, and man shall not die.

(Hymn by Henry Ware, 1817)
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